RECLAMATION CODES
SHORT, SELF-PACED EXPERIENCE
FOR HIGH-STAKES COPARENTING
Four Core Codes • Four Areas
Your children, your communication and boundaries, court and professionals, and your personal power, with a bonus Code for romantic relationships.
For the woman who already carries a lot and is now ready to run this era on her own Codes.
For the woman who already carries a lot
You are across children, work, court, family dynamics, and an inner world that picks up more than what is said out loud.
The coparenting era gets the same level of intention.
Reclamation Codes is a focused experience where you set the internal rules you run this era by, so your children, your communication, and your presence with legal professionals reflect who you are, instead of the noise around you.
This is an upgrade to how you operate.
What is Reclamation Codes
Short audios. One focused move per area.
If you have already done identity work, you may notice something important here.
A lot of “mindset” and “confidence” work still orbits your coparent’s accusations, the “system’s” reports, and other people’s projections, even when the language looks strong. It still keeps your coparent's story at the centre.
Reclamation Codes quietly flips that.
You start organising your identity around what regulates and feeds your nervous system, what holds your power, and how you choose to move. This is where your inner compass is set.
You walk away with four core Codes, plus a bonus Relationships Code, a clear, written way you choose to move across the areas that shape this season.
Children Code - How your children experience you
How home feels, how you move on handover and return days, and what your child’s nervous system learns from watching you in this era.
Communication & Boundaries Code - How you use your voice and access
How you use parenting apps, emails, phone calls, and in-person contact.
What you respond to, how, and on what timeline, and what simply does not get your energy.
Court & Professionals Code - How you show up in formal arenas
How you hold yourself with lawyers, mediators, the court, the school, and therapists.
What belongs in documents versus conversations, how you prepar,e and how you stay anchored when the stakes are high.
Personal Power Code - How you hold yourself through all of it
How you treat yourself in this season: your time, your focus, your energy.
How you re-centre after contact, how you make decisions and the lines you no longer cross with yourself.
Bonus Relationships Code – Romantic relationships in this era
How you move in romantic relationships while parenting, “coparenting” and court is happening.
How you bring someone into your world, or deepen an existing relationship, without losing yourself, your power, or your Codes.
You may move through the four core areas over four days, or at your own pace.
By the end, you have your Codes drafted, visible, and ready to run through every decision you make with your children, your communication, court, and your own power.
Even if this is the only space you ever step into with me, these Codes stand on their own.
You can keep coming back to these Codes in future coparenting seasons, new court cycles, and whatever the next era of your life opens up.
Your situation may shift. Your Codes are built to stay with you.
The Codes In Real Life
Children Code - How your children experience you
Handover is on Friday. It has already been a big week with emails, decisions and logistics.
Your Children Code already defines:
How you want the lead-up to feel at home
How you hold yourself during the exchange
What you do in the first hour after your child returns
Instead of improvising, you follow your Code.
Your child feels that stability long before they have words for it.
Communication & Boundaries Code - How you use your voice and access
A message lands in the parenting app at 10:37pm.
Your Code already covers:
When you read and when you wait
What warrants a response
The tone and length you use
You scan, decide in under a minute, and either send a short response or leave it.
Your inbox stops dictating your nervous system.
Court & Professionals Code - How you show up in formal spaces
Your lawyer emails with a draft. The therapist calls a meeting.
Your Code already defines:
What you want professionals to understand about you and your child
What belongs in documents versus conversations
How you prepare yourself on the day
You walk in clear on your role and your responsibilities.
You leave knowing you held your standard.
Personal Power Code - How you hold yourself through all of it
It’s been a week of deadlines, emails, and logistics.
Your Code already names:
The non-negotiables you keep for your own mind and body
The way you speak to yourself in this season
The threshold for what you give attention to
You do not wait for the coparent or the Court to create space for you.
You hold that power yourself.
Bonus Relationships Code - Romantic relationships in practice
You meet someone new, or you are already in a relationship.
Your Relationships Code already defines:
How and when you share the reality of your “coparenting” situation
How you expect to be treated in this era
What you no longer justify or explain away in the name of keeping the peace
You are not asking a partner to rescue you from this season.
You are inviting them into a life that already has Codes, a clear direction, and a woman who knows who she is.
They can choose to meet you there or not, and you no longer contort yourself to make it work.
What Shifts in the Next 30 Days
With your children
Handover and return days are run on your terms, not on last-minute chaos
Your child experiences you as steady, even when schedules and demands are heavy
You finish the week recognising yourself in how you showed up for them
In communication
You say less and stand by it, instead of sending three follow-up messages to “clarify”.
Written communication that is shorter, clearer, and workable for professionals
Your time in apps and your inbox is reduced because your standards are set in advance
With court and legal professionals
You know exactly who you are in meetings, mediations, and court dates
You distinguish what is worth escalating and what is not
You create a consistent presence that aligns with your values and your long game
In your personal power
Your nervous system gets rhythm and structure, not just coping
You have your Codes written and visible, guiding decisions instead of emotional spikes
You move through this chapter with self-respect intact
In romantic relationships
You stop watering yourself down to be easier to date in this season
You bring your reality to the table without over-explaining or downplaying it
You choose from your Codes, not from urgency, scarcity, or loneliness
How it works
Format: 4 focused audio trainings (10-30 minutes each) plus a training on Identity + bonus Relationships and integration audio
Delivery: Private Telegram channel
Support: Brief notes and prompts for each audio, plus access to the Q&A thread where you can see how other women have applied the Codes to real situations
Access: Instant & lifetime access to all audios and notes so you can move through them self-paced, in a way that fits your life
You listen.
You write your Codes.
You apply one move at a time to real situations you are already handling.
Built to fit into the life you are already living.
This space is not just information.
Reclamation Codes is a transmission.
You are not just taking notes on concepts; you are in a room with how I hold identity, nervous system, and personal power in high-stakes coparenting.
For many women who have “done the work” for years, that is the piece that lets what they already know drop into a deeper layer of embodiment.
Before You Enter This Room
This space is designed for women who:
Take full responsibility for their side of the dynamic
Already hold a high standard in other areas and want co-parenting aligned with that
Care about the long-term impact on their children and on themselves
Are ready to take aligned action and not just collect information
If you are looking for tools to control your ex, a space to stay in the story, or legal advice, this is not that room.
If you are here to set Codes and live by them, you are in the right place.
SHORT, SELF-PACED EXPERIENCE
RECLAMATION CODES
Your Codes written for children, communication and boundaries, court and professionals, and your personal power
Four core audio trainings
Bonus Identity, Relationships and integration audio trainings
Notes and prompts
Q&A thread
Lifetime access
This is a one-time investment in a set of Codes you may keep using as this era of your life evolves.
$277
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